Are you the best version of yourself
Are you the best version of yourself
ARE YOU THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF?
Quite the powerful question, isnt it? I went to a lecture at Church and this was the question that the speaker, Matthew Kelly, posed to the audience. As I sat there and pondered this question, the answer was a resounding "NO!" How scary is that? I didnt even have to think about it - it wasnt even debatable - I am no where near the best version of myself - what a sad state of ME Ive become!
When I look in the mirror, I dont really LOOK anymore. My face, hair, skin and body will forever show the effects of the chemo, radiation, and surgeries needed to survive breast and ovarian cancer. When my hair grew back in, it was a totally new and yucky color and texture and the medications have taken their toll on my face and skin more than "fun in the sun" damage ever could have. But alas, as my Mom would say, "it is what it is" so I suck it up.
I dont really take the time I should to do my hair and make-up. I dont dress as well as I used to and attention to detail is pretty much non-existent. Mediocrity and "good enough" seem to suffice and that is so sad. Because we all know when we put on our favorite jeans and our hair turns out just right, we feel we can take on the world!
Here are a few of the ideas that Matthew Kelly presents in The Rhythm of Life...
"You were born to become the-best-version-of-yourself. This is your essential purpose. Embrace this one solitary truth and it will change your life more than anything you have ever learned. In every situation, ask yourself, Which of the options before me will help me become the-best-version-of-myself?"
"Everything is a choice. This is lifes greatest truth and its hardest lesson. It is a great truth because it reminds us of our power. Not power over others, but the power to be ourselves and to live the life we have imagined. It is a hard lesson because it causes us to realize that we have chosen the life we are living right now." (WOW - seriously eye-opening!)
"The measure of your life will be the measure of your courage. Courage animates us, brings us to life, and makes everything else possible. Fear stops more people from doing something with their lives than lack of ability, contacts, resources, or any other single variable. Fear paralyzes the human spirit. Life takes courage." (I can SO attest to this!)
"Energy is our most valuable resource, not time. The rhythm of life is a way of life that brings our legitimate needs, our deepest desires, and our unique talents into harmony with each other. The result: passion, purpose, and energy."
Kelly has a way of thinking and writing that cuts through the stifling clutter of our everyday lives and delivers a clarity that is both refreshing and liberating.
"You were born to become the-best-version-of-yourself. This is your essential purpose. Embrace this one solitary truth and it will change your life more than anything you have ever learned. In every situation, ask yourself, Which of the options before me will help me become the-best-version-of-myself?"
"Everything is a choice. This is lifes greatest truth and its hardest lesson. It is a great truth because it reminds us of our power. Not power over others, but the power to be ourselves and to live the life we have imagined. It is a hard lesson because it causes us to realize that we have chosen the life we are living right now." (WOW - seriously eye-opening!)
"The measure of your life will be the measure of your courage. Courage animates us, brings us to life, and makes everything else possible. Fear stops more people from doing something with their lives than lack of ability, contacts, resources, or any other single variable. Fear paralyzes the human spirit. Life takes courage." (I can SO attest to this!)
"Energy is our most valuable resource, not time. The rhythm of life is a way of life that brings our legitimate needs, our deepest desires, and our unique talents into harmony with each other. The result: passion, purpose, and energy."
Kelly has a way of thinking and writing that cuts through the stifling clutter of our everyday lives and delivers a clarity that is both refreshing and liberating.
UNLESS WE TALKING ABOUT A PIECE OF FURNITURE! I read the blog BETTER/AFTER every day and am constantly amazed by the incredible transformations and I have even been featured a few times myself! I will look at a piece of furniture and shudder at the ugliness of it and will painstakingly devote days to making it pretty. And yet I wont do that for myself, WHY? Am I not more worthy than a beat up chair? WAKE UP CALL!
My heels are cracking, my nails are chipping and the other day I even went out with a SCRUNCHIE in my hair! Can you believe it? A SCRUNCHIE! And it was made of seersucker watermelon fabric. SERIOUSLY? Thats the point I knew Id hit rock bottom! LMAO!
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Today is Wednesday and one week from today will be Ash Wednesday and the beginning of Lent. 40 days of fasting, almsgiving, and reflection. As a Catholic, Lent was always such a sacred time of year and I am using these 40 days to rededicate my time and energy to ME and my LIFE!
I was so happy doing the C25K (Couch to a 5K) 9 week program but then dummy me had a Yankee candle jar on the stairs and of course I tripped and fell onto it and ripped open my knee. Then it was November and my running shoes started collecting dust. I am going to start the C25k and I am going to finish it this time!
When I am cozy on the couch with Pinterest or Facebook, I have fleeting thoughts of "I could go for a run. But its so cold outside. Maybe tomorrow." R U KIDDING ME? You live in Chicago - of course it is cold outside - its freakin JANUARY! SERIOUSLY TRACY - WHEN DID YOU BECOME SUCH A WEENIE! You have tons of North Face tights, Patagonia turtlenecks and WAY TOO MANY WICKING THINGS! Put them on and get outside! You know once you get outside and breathe in that crisp, cold air you will be invigorated. The journey of a 1,000 miles begins with the first step to LOG OFF and stop crying that your thighs have tripled in size since Christmas! :-)
Last fall, I made it to week 7 and now I have to start all over again at week 1. But it is ok because I love it and I look forward to losing the weight and feeling strong again. Maybe I will be ready for a Mothers Day 5k in honor of my Mom. Something to consider.
When I am cozy on the couch with Pinterest or Facebook, I have fleeting thoughts of "I could go for a run. But its so cold outside. Maybe tomorrow." R U KIDDING ME? You live in Chicago - of course it is cold outside - its freakin JANUARY! SERIOUSLY TRACY - WHEN DID YOU BECOME SUCH A WEENIE! You have tons of North Face tights, Patagonia turtlenecks and WAY TOO MANY WICKING THINGS! Put them on and get outside! You know once you get outside and breathe in that crisp, cold air you will be invigorated. The journey of a 1,000 miles begins with the first step to LOG OFF and stop crying that your thighs have tripled in size since Christmas! :-)
Last fall, I made it to week 7 and now I have to start all over again at week 1. But it is ok because I love it and I look forward to losing the weight and feeling strong again. Maybe I will be ready for a Mothers Day 5k in honor of my Mom. Something to consider.
Life has had some really rough spots for me... I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer at 31, then my Dad died, my brother committed suicide, I was in three car accidents none of which were my fault, my Mom was diagnosed with terminal breast cancer and I was her caregiver for almost two years. Then, just over a year later I was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer which caused me to lose normal use of my left arm (and of course I am left-handed), my 90 mph tennis serve and my ability to ever have children.... all before my 40th birthday! Then I lost my job of over 13 years and coming out of my cancer check-up they had smashed my car windows and ransacked my car. And we wont even go into my train wreck of a love life. Good thing I am still here to complain about it all. :-)
Im not whining - really Im not - but some days its hard. I miss my parents and brother. I miss my pre-cancer life. I miss those delightful days with absolutely no worries or anxiety. I miss my breast. I miss my old HAIR! LOL! These are things I cannot change - I simply have to accept them. But I know life doesnt have to perfect to be wonderful and I still spend a good part of my day laughing - be it at myself, my DIY catastrophes or reruns of Big Bang Theory.
My life needs to change in order to find true happiness again and but I know it can be done.
I am going to work on my skin, my body, my health, my sleep habits, my clutter, my house, my money, my attitude, my diet, my computer time, my BLOG and MY LIFE! So let the makeovers begin!
But I have a few more days to be be lazy and unmotivated. I think I will go and get a Shamrock Shake and spend a few hours on Pinterest. It is probably not a good sign that I cant wait for FAT TUESDAY, right? LOL!
But I have a few more days to be be lazy and unmotivated. I think I will go and get a Shamrock Shake and spend a few hours on Pinterest. It is probably not a good sign that I cant wait for FAT TUESDAY, right? LOL!
ARE YOU THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF?
Are you the best version of yourself
